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Philosophy of BDSM

I think everyone has their own philosophy about what BDSM is – beyond the make up of the acronym and the what/how-tos of those things. I know I have touched on my own philosophy in discreet ways, related to my thoughts on Dominance and submission, things like that. I thought it might be a good time to give a more holistic philosophy, though, on what BDSM is, in my world view anyway. Why Philosophy Matters It is fine to dabble in things, to have a brushing interest or want to pick out things to help flavor and spice the rest of your life. We do that with all sorts of things. When we have those passing interests and light fancies, however, we rarely take the time to think on what is happening … Read entire article »

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Top, Bottom, Side, Side

You have discovered something wonderful. You like bondage or pain, maybe even both. You might like having your hands bound by your lover. Perhaps you like the feeling of hot wax on your stomach or a flogger across the back of your upper thighs. Your legs being immobile makes you weak in the knees. Whatever your specific interest, you love being on the receiving end of these new, physical pleasures. Then your partner gives you a command, and your hackles rise. You wonder what is wrong? You were sure that submitting to your partner was the thing. Are you a bad submissive? A brat? Is this BDSM even for you? The short answer to the questions in order: nothing, no, no, and yes.

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