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Respect in BDSM Erotica

If you head over to StreetWraith Press After Dark (I linked around the 18+ warning because if you are going there from here, you should already be 18+ … you’re welcome) you will see a review with a similar title as this article. My first review of another author’s erotica. I hope that you find it enjoyable and that it stimulates your mind enough to want to buy the story. It’s a good one. Emily Ryan-Davis came highly recommended to me, and I recommend her as well. What gripped me about Claiming Lauren and has me reading the rest of the eXclave series is the respect she pays to the Lifestyle and, most importantly, the safety and protocols that are so important in it. I wanted to expand on that idea … Read entire article »

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A Kinky Giveaway

So, I am so very close to my goal seller-goal on Fiverr. So here is how Fiverr works. You can set up a basic gig, and then after time, and good sales with good ratings, you can do more with that gig. Like … offer people the opportunity to have you ghost write a story for them … for example. Anyway, in order to get a little more attention for that, for the blog, and for myself – because who doesn’t like a little attention – I decided why not have a giveaway. So, if you enter the giveaway and win – 1 winner – I will write a romance or erotic story for you for free. The same rules apply as the Fiverr Gig, but you don’t have to pay anything for … Read entire article »

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Do You Have a Fantasy?

One of the things that I do is write erotica. Mostly I write BDSM erotica. I have made exceptions, when they are requested on Commission. I have a Gig® that I offer through Fiverr® . This is a site where people offer up a service they are willing to do for $5. I will create a story with you (as a pseudonym per Fiverr’s TOS) as a character. If you have a fantasy, something that you think you would enjoy seeing put to the test of storytelling, stop by and make a request. I’m open to most types of stories. I have a few hard limits. They are in the Gig® description. Within them is a wide world of kink, perversion, and sex. I do publish these stories later as well. I … Read entire article »

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Ask Holle – If trust is so important between partners why would you need a safe word?

Covenant asked If trust is so important between partners why would you need a safe word? One of the first things I learned about BDSM, when I really started exploring it, was the use of the safe word. I used to play with a Dom who I will call “John”, for the sake of privacy and all that good stuff. John was one of the first Doms that I played with, and a very considerate partner. I trusted him, knowing him outside of BDSM circles, but because I was still new to kink play, he wanted to be sure that I was comfortable with anything that we did, that he did not hurt me, and that I did not feel bad about anything that we did. We discussed what each of us wanted … Read entire article »

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Some Gals Just Like to Be Tied Up

For some disclosure … in my early adult life, I flitted from job to job, not really sure what I wanted to do. During this time, I found myself out of work and desperate. A close friend of mine had an interesting proposal. She needed a personal secretary, someone to answer phones and help keep her books. I would get some valuable experience and she would have the help she needed. It just happened to be this friend was a professional Dominatrix. From her, I was introduced into the BDSM sub-culture (or the Scene) of the 1990′s, not as an active participant, but an inside observer. I developed an interest in it that remains to this day. BDSM has a wide interpretation. At its most basic, it is Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, and … Read entire article »

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