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Power in D/s

Who has power in a Dominance/submission relationship? This is a discussion that I’ve been getting myself involved in a lot lately, and I’ve had a chance to really examine things I learned about this a long time ago. I think it is important to be able to state the reason for your beliefs beyond just “it is what I was taught.” If you cannot give reasoning beyond that, then you have knowledge, but no wisdom. So here are my thoughts on this. Take it for what you will, but it does play an important part in my overall philosophy of BDSM. So, in a Dominance and submission dynamic,

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Why Submission Is Not About Nature

One topic that has been coming up in groups for a while is the idea of the “natural submissive.” You know these submissives well. They appear in groups, some of them being long-time lifestylers, some of them being very new and inexperienced. All of them say the same things: My submission is a natural thing. I have always been this way. Being submissive is who I am.

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